The Sage-ing Guild Communicator

   

The Sage-ing Guild Communicator
Changing the paradigm from Aging to Sage-ing®

February 2010

   

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In This Issue


Save the Date!

A-musing

SG News & Events

Of Interest

Links

Membership

Merchandise

E-Letters

Coordinating Circle

Judy Charlick, Ph.D.
Lorri Danzig
Cheryl Goodman, Chair
Nancy Gray-Hemstock
Johanna Lessner, Ph.D.
Sandy Sabersky
Carol Scott-Kassner, Ph.D.
Paul Severance
Linda Smith, Ph.D.

Contributors

• Judith Helburn, editor
• Jann Freed, CSL
• HR Moody/Human Values in Aging
• Ken & Mary Gergen's Positive Aging Newsletter
• Samantha Young/Practical Care Continuum

Contact Us

www.sage-ingguild.org



Membership


Wisdom Circle: Key figures who have made significant contributions for elders in the world and who share our vision of "changing the paradigm from aging to Sage-ing®."

We are honored to have the following sages in our Wisdom Circle: Rabbi Zalman Schachter-Shalomi, Angeles Arrien, Robert Atchley, Connie Goldman, Richard Leider, Wendy Lustbader, Rick Moody, and William Thomas.

Professional members: Our membership is always open to both Certified Sage-ing Leaders and Sage-ing Circle Facilitators. Our trained Professional Sage-ing Guild members who by supporting the SG have access to the members-only web site and receive discounts for SG events and merchandise among other advantages.

Associate members: Benefits of Associate membership include:
  • Knowledge that they're supporting the Guild in its work for elders
  • Knowledge that they're supporting the Sage-ing work of Reb Zalman
  • Networking with other members thru listserv
  • Discounts on merchandise
  • Occasional e-newsletter
  • Regional association with other Guild members
  • Discounts on regional, national meetings

    Please see the Sage-ing Guild website for details, including membership forms.

    In response to those who find the membership dues too dear, we will honor any Sage-ing Leader who sends what s/he feels is appropriate with membership.


    Merchandise


    NEW: 2½" round stickers for class folders and more. Twenty-five for $5.00 + $1.50 postage and handling



    The Sage-ing Workbook previously published by SEI has been revived by Bahira Sugarman, Reb Shaya Isenberg and Lynne Iser (which they originally compiled in 1996). It now is in a beautiful new 83-page format for the Sage-ing Guild, with 35 photographs that greatly enhance its appearance and its effectiveness. The Sage-ing content is not changed, just its appearance, which adds a deeper meaning to the words. We now have a variety of Sage-ing materials on the Guild website.

    From Age-ing to Sage-ing is also available from our website, as are audio and video tapes.


    E-Letters


    If you are a member of the Sage-ing Guild, please feel free to contribute to this occasional e-letter. .

    Anyone may subscribe to The Sage-ing Guild Communicator by .



     
    Reaching Back From Here
    Nancy Wood
    in Many Winters

    Reaching back from here
    All that I remember of my life
    Are the great round rocks and not
    The unimportant stones.
    I know that I experienced pain and yet
    The scars have healed so that
    I am like the tree covering itself
    With new growth every year.
    I know that I walked in sadness and yet
    All that I remember now
    Is the soothing autumn light.
    I know that there was much to make my life unhappy
    If I had stopped to notice how
    The world sings a broken song.

    But I preferred to dwell within
    A universe of fields and streams
    Which echoed the wholeness of my song.

     


     
    When you have malevolent thoughts
    Don't speak them, but
    write them.
    Write them in the sand
    as close to the water
    as possible.
    Yogi Desai

     


     
    The Shell must break before the bird can fly
    —Alfred Lord Tennyson

     


   
Welcome! To the Sage-ing® Guild's e-letter. Our vision is: To change the paradigm from aging to Sage-ing. You are receiving this because you are a member of the Sage-ing Guild, a Sage-ing Leader or a Being seeking Sage-ing. If you do not wish to continue receiving this newsletter, four times a year, click to unsubscribe. The Sage-ing Guild Communicator is open to anyone who is interested in conscious aging. One may sign up by sending an email to .

Mission Statement: To change the paradigm of aging by building a community of leaders to transmit the wisdom of Sage-ing.

OUR TEACHERS ARE THE THREADS WHICH WEAVE THE SAGE-ING GUILD TOGETHER!



Save the Date!


  
Roots and Wings:
The Importance of Sage-ing in Today's World

The Sage-ing Guild's Second National Conference
October 15-17, 2010
Sunrise Ranch in Loveland, Colorado

Further details regarding our agenda, call for papers, and registration will be coming soon. We are planning to make this gathering our best conference ever, and need your participation to make that happen! We are looking forward to seeing you in Fall.

  

A-musing


Sage-ing is not just for Elders
For 27 years, I had been teaching business management to traditionally aged college students (18-22) in a small independent liberal arts college in the Midwest. Then I went through training to be a Certified Sage-ing Leader last year. As I completed my internship hours throughout the year, I gradually began to incorporate sage-ing concepts into my leadership course. Basically, my conclusion was this: The earlier people understand these concepts the better!

Since there are four generations of people now working in organizations, it is more important than ever to understand and practice concepts that help us live a quality life for the rest of our life. So we read, discuss, and watch film clips that address:
  • Exploring images of aging
  • Engaging in life review
  • Practicing forgiveness and the healing of relationships
  • Embracing one's mortality and
  • Thinking about legacy work

Understanding these concepts provides a foundation for living a healthy life. I believe that when people are unaware and lack this understanding they are more likely to live in fear and demonstrate behaviors that reflect the "dark or shadow side" of leadership. When we are embrace change, lean into our fears, and contemplate our legacy, we are the kinds of leaders others want to follow.

I have taught this course three times since integrating sage-ing concepts and I am convinced that sage-ing is not just for elders. It is for everyone who wants to be the best person and best leader possible. Sage-ing has changed my life and I part of my calling is to teach these concepts to others—and the earlier the better. —Jann Freed

SG News & Events

  • Weekend Intensives
    Glorious weekends helping us to be the best we can be in the second half of life which are also Certification program prerequisites. These weekends mark the beginning of the formation of the next Certified Sage-ing Leader class and are open to all.
    • April 9-11; Longmont CO (Longmont Senior Center): Becoming a Sage. Judith Helburn & (303-819-2588). $250.

      Bonus: April 11, 11am-1pm. "Fireside Chat" and lunch with David Chernikoff, past education Coordinator for the Spiritual Eldering Institute. Open to local Sage-ing Leaders and/or Sage-ing Circle participants in addition to those attending the weekend Intensive. $15 for the discussion and lunch.

    • April 16-18; Chicago IL (The Cenacle): Becoming a Sage. Maureen Dobson and (517-357-0178). $250.

      Bonus: April 16, 1-5pm workshop; 5-8pm dinner/networking: Sage-ing Guild Central & East Central Regions "Friend Raising" Pre-Intensive workshop: "Promoting A Healthy Brain as We Age" with special guest facilitator Rosemary Cox, CSL, SCF of Memorial Brainworks. The workshop is open to the public; cost: $50 (reduced price for Guild Members: $35; includes dinner and networking).

    • April 30-May 2; Boston MA (Walker Center, Auburndale): Aging, a Work of Art: Invitation to Sage-ing. Pat Hoertdoerfer, MDiv, CSL & , RN MN, CSL (941-776-8024). $250.

    • September; Seattle WA (Camp Brotherhood): Aging with Wisdom: a Sage-ing® Intensive. & Carol Scott-Kassner. $250. More information forthcoming.

  • Sage-ing Guild membership: Those of you who are up-to-date in your membership payment have been sent the new password to our protected and information-laden site. Available only to Professional members.

  • SG Website: Watch for a totally revised and user friendly site sometime this month.

  • New and Pending Merchandise:
    • Counting on Kindness: the Dilemmas of Dependency, by Wendy Lustbader, Sage-ing Guild Wisdom Circle member. 1993. "If you are a reader who is old or sick, or you take care or someone who is, and you can't find the book you need to keep you going, try to get your hands on this original and beautiful work..." —Valerie Trueblood
    • Who Am I...Now That I'm Not Who I Was?, by Connie Goldman, Sage-ing Guild Wisdom Circle member. Nodin Press, 2009. Coming soon to the SG shelves.



Of Interest


Purpose Prize: The Purpose Prize provides ten awards of up to $100,000 to innovators in encore careers by those over 60 years of age who are creating new ways to solve our most pressing social issues—from health care to the environment, poverty to education. The Purpose Prize Program is directed by Civic Ventures and is now in its fifth year. Nominations, including self-nominations, are due March 5, 2010 and can be submitted here (from Human Values in Aging)

Respect, Generativity and Well-Being: Famed psychologist, Eric Erikson, who theorized about the eight stages of human development, described generativity in midlife as a very significant foundation for the last stage of life. For Erikson, generativity meant creative and productive work, and especially activity that contributes to the betterment of the society. Being generative has also been associated with feelings of well-being. The more one gives (up to a point), the better one feels about life. For example, a study of 520 people aged 55-84 found that generativity accounted for approximately 80% of their feelings of well-being, more important, even, than intimacy. Yet, generativity is not exclusively an activity characteristic of mid-life adults. Rather it can be a continuous way of life. read more...

100 is the New 65: Why do some people live to 100? Researchers are trying to find out, reports Meera Lee Sethi, and they're discovering how we might live better lives, not just longer ones.

Elsa Brehm Hoffmann loves bridge and is always ready for a party. Rosa McGee enjoys singing hymns to herself all day long. Will Clark makes a mean spaghetti and meatballs. What connects these three? They belong to the single fastest growing segment of the United States population: people over a hundred years old.

Hoffmann, McGee, Clark, and the nearly Hoffmann, McGee, Clark, and the nearly 100,000 other centenarians in the U.S. provide inspiration to the rest of us. But they also provide researchers with a tantalizing puzzle: Why do some people live so long? For years, medical researchers have been studying this select group, identifying some key factors to a long life. Now, a growing body of research is suggesting that longevity isn't just linked to good genes and a healthy lifestyle; it's also tied to cultivating a positive, resilient attitude toward life. These results validate a simple idea: that centenarians can teach us how to live not just longer lives, but better ones. read more...

Turning 50 in 2010? Do you know anyone who is? Here's an opportunity to be part of a filmed documentary of women's legacy. Passed on by Nancy Gray Hemstock, CSL, a friend of the director. Check out this website.

Get Ready for Older Americans Month May is Older Americans Month, and this year's theme is "Age Strong! Live Long!" The Administration on Aging has posted a logo, poster, and other materials to help you celebrate. Download resources here—free!

The Administration on Aging (AoA) wants to hear from you on critical issues for next year's reauthorization of the Older Americans Act (OAA). Since 1965, the Older Americans Act (OAA) has gained recognition as a unique and highly regarded statute that has stimulated the development of a comprehensive and coordinated service system. This system has contributed greatly to enhancing the lives of older individuals, family caregivers, and persons with disabilities.

In 2011 Congress will consider reauthorization and amendments to the OAA effective in FY 2012. In anticipation of this process, the Administration on Aging (AoA) is soliciting input concerning the reauthorization through three mechanisms: (1) AoA-Convened Listening Forums; (2) OAA Reauthorization Input Events; and (3) Direct Input via the AoA Website or Mail. Note that reauthorization input events registered on this site will be added to a special AoA website.

Links


Aging in America, 2010. National Council on Aging: American Society on Aging Conference. March 15-19. Chicago IL. For more information, see the conference website.

National Center for Creative Arts: Your Artwork Here! National Center for Creative Arts fully supports older adults who sculpt, paint, woodcarve, take pictures, draw, write poetry, blog, journal....you get the idea. They want to showcase you and your work! Send them a photo/sample of your piece and they will select one to feature in their newsletter and on their blog. with questions or submissions.

• Photographs and reflections on life by elders, a multi-media collection "Gathering of the Wisdom People" (from Human Values in Aging)

• Wisdom and aging: a brief bibliography on "Defining Wisdom." Project of the University of Chicago (from Human Values in Aging)

Help the Sage-ing Guild! Molly F. Prues creates videos on aging. We could use some of these. Anyone out there able to do this? If so, please . You can view a chapter of Prues' film by clicking here! You can also check out Molly's website.

Choosing Conscious Elderhood: Answering the Call to Service in the Elder Years. This is a retreat-center based rite of passage that will happen July 10-15 in Western Colorado. The facilitators are Ron Pevny and Nancy Jane. We offer a discount for Sage-ing Guild members and their clients. For more information, see the flyer. Registration deadline: May 1.

• A delightful intergenerational video.

• Profile of Older Americans: Electronic version of the popular brochure with the latest key statistics on older Americans in key subject areas. It includes both narrative and statistical charts. The 2009 edition is only available online.

• Engage with Grace and the One Slide Project have one goal: to help insure that all of us—and the people we care for—can end our lives in the same purposeful way we lived them. (from Practical Care Continuum Newsletter)

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