The Sage-ing Guild Communicator

   

The Sage-ing Guild Communicator
Changing the paradigm from Aging to Sage-ing®

August 2008

   

2008-3

In This Issue


Conference Report
Of Interest
Other Resources
Membership
Ideas
Web News
Merchandise
E-Letters

Coordinating Circle

Carol Bourne, Chair
Michele Baldwin
Gary Carlson
Judy Charlick
Lorri Danzig
Judith Helburn
Trudy Medcalf
Sandy Sabersky
Paul Severance

Contact Us

www.sage-ingguild.org




Membership


Wisdom Circle: Key figures who have made significant contributions for elders in the world and who share our vision of "changing the paradigm from aging to Sage-ing®."

We are honored to have the following sages in our Wisdom Circle: Rabbi Zalman Schachter-Shalomi, Angeles Arrien, Robert Atchley, Connie Goldman, Richard Leider, Wendy Lustbader, and William Thomas.

Professional members: As of early March, we had about 115 professional members which include both Certified Sage-ing Leaders and Sage-ing Circle Facilitators. Our trained Professional Sage-ing Guild members who by supporting the SG have access to the members-only website and receive discounts for SG events and merchandise among other advantages.

Associate members: As of early August, we have about 60 Associate members. Benefits of Associate membership include:
  • Knowledge that they're supporting the Guild in its work for elders
  • Knowledge that they're supporting the Sage-ing work of Reb Zalman
  • Networking with other members thru listserv
  • Discounts on merchandise
  • Occasional e-newsletter
  • Regional association with other Guild members
  • Discounts on regional, national meetings

Please see the Sage-ing Guild website for details including membership forms.

In response to those who find the membership dues too dear, we will honor any Sage-ing Leader who sends what s/he feels is appropriate with membership.



Ideas


Sage-ing blogs
We are learning about Blogs. A good way to spread the word about Sage-ing and the Sage-ing Guild is to mention it in blogs. If you have your own blog, please help us. If you want to start a blog, go to Blogspot.com.


Gathering Associates & supporting scholarships
An invitation to join the Sage-ing Guild as an Associate is now available on the member website under Practice Development. Please consider printing some up and handing it out along with our brochure (available at the same section of the website) to your Sage-ing participants.


Circles
Begin your own Elder Council or Sage-ing Circle using the Sage-ing Workbook as your guide.





Web News


We are always looking for ways to make using our own Sage-ing Guild website easier (suggestions welcome).

On our Professional Members only site we now have a heading, "Teaching Opportunities", in which we invite experienced Certified Sage-ing Leaders to consider giving a 2-5 day training prerequisite Intensive.

Under that heading we have the agreement between the leaders and the Sage-ing Guild, the budget for the Intensive, a summary of what is to be covered, and forms to be used in the Intensive. Contact Intensive Workshop Coordinator, for more information.

You can now find Professional Sage-ing Leaders on our open website, listed both alphabetically and by state/province.

Check out the information on our Wisdom Circle members

You now can send us money for membership or merchandise via PayPal.com

Hints on making the site more accessible:

• if something is underlined on the webpage, it is a link to more details—click it!
• have questions about the website? need help finding something? contact the .



Merchandise



The Sage-ing Workbook previously published by SEI has been revived by Bahira Sugarman, Reb Shaya Isenberg and Lynne Iser (which they originally compiled in 1996). It now is in a beautiful new 83-page format for the Sage-ing Guild, with 35 photographs that greatly enhance its appearance and its effectiveness. The Sage-ing content is not changed, just its appearance, which adds a deeper meaning to the words. We now have a variety of Sage-ing materials on the Guild website.

From Age-ing to Sage-ing is also available from our website, as are audio and video tapes.



E-Letters


If you are a member of the Sage-ing Guild, please feel free to contribute to this occasional e-letter. Send material to .

Anyone may subscribe to The Sage-ing Guild Communicator by sending an email to .




  
Awakening to Elderhood, we pour the distillates of our lives into other vessels, an act that not only seeds the future but that crowns our lives with worth and nobility.
—R. Zalman Schachter-Shalomi

  


   
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Mission Statement: To change the paradigm of aging by building a community of leaders to transmit the wisdom of Sage-ing.

OUR TEACHERS ARE THE THREADS WHICH WEAVE THE SAGE-ING GUILD TOGETHER!


Conference Report


Changing the Paradigm from Aging to Sage-ing-ing: One Story at a Time, by Pat Lewis

Many dreams came true on June 13th in Dayton Ohio at the first National Sage-ing Guild Conference so aptly chaired by Carol and Jerry Bourne with the tireless help of the education committee and the Guild Coordinating Circle [CC}.

I want to share my perspective of not only the conference but all that the Guild (and in particular the CC) has accomplished in the 3½ years of its existence. Having been on the first sage-ing coordinating circle and rotating off last December, I have a perspective of the Guild that not everyone has had the opportunity to share.

The CC has done an incredible amount of work to bring the dream of the Guild to fruition. After setting up initial structures and recruiting membership, the Guild had to deal with the dissolution of the Spiritual Eldering Institute and all that was entailed with that bankruptcy. (It was so good to have former SEI board chair, Bob Atchley, with us who took on so much work that came with the dissolution of the Institute.)

Another critical piece that had to be attended to immediately was to certify a group of about 15 people who were in the midst of their Internship. A process for that was worked out and Rosemary Cox and William Cox generously donated their time and talent as faculty for the final training weekend.

A major decision then had to be made: Would the Guild be a professional organization only, or would it also be a body to train and certify new leaders. Since it was important that the work of Reb Zalman not be lost, it was determined that the Guild would take on the task of certification even though it would mean much more work and structures.

The Education Committee worked diligently to develop the training, keeping it in line with the training that had been established by Reb Zalman and subsequent faculty. In the past three years there have been a number of Intensive weekend workshops offered regionally. We have Certified our first class and another is in process. This has taken much behind the scene's work as well as the coordination of the Mentors and Interns.

We also applied for and became a 501(c)(3), a time consuming issue and process. We divided the Guild into regions for the purpose of networking and a wonderful website was created. These are just a few of the major accomplishments of the Guild in addition to visioning and creating a national conference. (See the Guild website for other pieces of history.)

Out of this, the Dayton conference evolved. The conference more than met my expectations as I gathered with 75 other Sage-ing Leaders as well as other participants. The spirit of all these people as well as the inspiring workshops and ritual, led by Sage-ing leaders, truly proved that Sage-ing is ALIVE and WELL. I experienced my colleagues deepening the concepts of Sage-ing and offering workshops that take the basic Sage-ing concepts into even greater depth. One example of this is what Judy Steiert from Calgary, has created using movies as a way to teach Sage-ing.

We were privileged to have Richard Leider, one of our Wisdom Circle Members, share with us from his new book, Something to Live for: Finding Your Way in the Second Half of Life. To me this was confirmation that indeed there is a need to help to our aging and mid-life population find meaning and new purpose through Sage-ing. Another highlight was our teleconference with Reb Zalman on Sunday as he shared with us his developing thoughts about some of the needs in our world for extended consciousness and the work of elders.

I came away from the conference filled with new energy for the important work of Sage-ing, and indelible images from Saturday night when so many gathered to drum and dance in a circle. In looking around the room at the faces of my colleagues, I was filled with a deep sense of well-being and I knew that Sage-ing is in good hands and that we are indeed changing the paradigm from Age-ing to Sage-ing . Many of these were people I was in training with 8 years ago, others who I worked with and got to know through my time on the coordinating circle, people from my Northwest region who had had a local gathering a few years ago, as well as many new faces who are now a part of my growing Sage-ing community.

I am certainly hoping that people will be willing to work on another national conference as well as regional gatherings like the northwest one a few years ago.

Do you have a Sage-ing Story? A Sage-ing question? Send it to .

Other Sage-ing and related Events
  • SG prerequisite training Intensive, September 27-28, Rochester NY
  • SG prerequisite training Intensive, November 15-16, Albuquerque NM
  • SG prerequisite training Intensive, January 17-18, Parrish FL
Please see the Sage-ing Guild website for details.

Of Interest


  • Intensives:
    Anyone out there who is experienced and wants to facilitate an Intensive? We would particularly like someone from the west coast and the Midwest. Contact .

  • Judy Charlick, Cleveland Ohio and Trudy Medcalf, Ontario Canada have joined our Coordinating Circle bringing outstanding teaching and organizational skills. More in the next SG Communicator.

  • Reb Zalman's definition of an Elder Corps:
    Then comes the work of November, which is where Jimmy and Rosalyn Carter are. They are giving back to the planet. We are sending young people to Kosovo as peacekeepers. I would rather have a corps of elders to talk with the Serb and Albanian grandparents who have lost grandchildren; sit together and try to figure out better ways of living together peacefully. An elder corps of people who have done the sage-ing work could be of such help locally and internationally. Many Middle East problems would be solved if an elder corps sat with the Palestinians and the Israeli people who have lost children and grandchildren. In this way, we would be able to overcome the dinosaur response of the younger people who have not been seasoned with wisdom.

    Elders would be the intercultural, international glue for humanitarian solutions. Madeline Albright, God bless her for the work she does—I don't know how she, at her age, is able to travel and be of sane mind meeting all of those people—but at the same time, her thinking is still in that reptilian mode, which is a pity. Look at how much NATO has invested in saving face. Elders don't feel that way.

    Please let us know if you are contributing to his dream in any way.

  • Positive Aging Conference:
    The Second Annual National Positive Aging Conference, Nov. 12, 2008, at the University of Minnesota focuses on "Achieving Purpose, Meaning and Vitality in the Second Half of Life." It will be broadcast online in order to promote community conversations at affiliated sites across the country. For details, see the Sage-ing Guild calendar. The Sage-ing Guild hopes to have sites in 10 or more cities. We will keep you posted.

  • Spiritually Speaking, by Sister Mary Thill:
    True compassion does not come from
    wanting to help those who are less fortunate
    than ourselves, but from realizing
    our kinship with all beings.
    —Pema Chodron, Buddhist writer

    I'm often puzzled when I open the front page of the paper in this town and see all the bad news that there is to print right on the front page...Does the media think we are less interested in what makes people do good things than in what makes people do bad things? What a teachable moment is missed when we do not see or learn more about good people and what makes them do good things. read more...
    Sister Mary Thill is a Sylvania Franciscan Sister. She is Patient Liaison for Mature Health Connections at St. Vincent Mercy Medical Center. She can be reached at 419-251-3600.

    Other Resources


    • Second Journey. It has a number of interesting articles on the important role of elders in taking care of/saving our planet and other related issues. If you find an article that particularly draws you, I'd like to hear about it. Maybe it can be the start of a new dialogue.

      More Second Journey information
      Coming in October. our online publication of Theodore Roszak's new book, The Making of an Elder Culture. Before the publication date we are controlling access by requiring completion of a brief online form. You can access that page via this link. read more...

    • The Next Fifty Years: A Guide for Women at Midlife and Beyond, by Pamela D. Blair. Hampton Roads. 2005. ISBN: 1571544398

      This workbook is comprehensive and divided into four sections: Thoughts; Cultural Attitudes and Myths about Women Aging; who we are, who and what we live with; and Looking Forward. In her introduction, Blair suggests that we skip sections which do not apply to us. All of her short essays are followed by space in which to respond to questions such as "how does this feel?" or, more specifically, asking for a response to the issue addressed... The book is intended to be used as a personal journal but could be used in a discussion/writing group following the study guide in the back or any other format deemed fitting for a group of women. It is well written, well researched and easy to follow. read more...

    • Edna Groves, Sage-ing Leader about ethical wills. To hear her radio interview for Healthy Life.net, click here, and then click on 7/03 Edna Groves: Words That Endure: Giving the Gifts of Your Lifetime.

    • Viktor Frankl's Contribution to Spirituality and Aging, edited by Melvin Kimble (Haworth, 2001) is a collection of essays exploring Frankl's logotherapy and its implications for later life.

    • Elder Cool Time by John H. Green, Ph.D. Trafford Publishing, July 2006
      ...[Green] describes "Elder" as representing a life-experienced teacher, and "Cool" to mean accepting the aging process with grace and dignity. Actions and words he tells us contribute to being "Elder Cool." Reflections, quotes, short stories and poetry speak of the problems we all face as we age. Humor laces the pages of Elder Cool Time, making it a delightful read...

      —review by Linda M. Smith, PhD, LMFT, SG Intern.

    • If you were at the SG Conference in June, you might recall Ann Wennhold and Ron Pevny's session, Into the Wild. You have a chance to follow up on a journey called "Meeting Ancient Wisdom, Growing into Elderhood", a trip to meet elders of the Tarahumara people of Copper Canyon in Chihuahua Mexico. for more information.

    • Links:
      • "Positive Images of Aging", from Terra Nova Films: This DVD provides a compilation of 14 different short video segments, and features changing perceptions of aging, wisdom and creativity, health promotion in later life, and more.

      • Prayer Beads: Eleanor Wiley's site about beads and prayer includes her book, A String and a Prayer. A String and a Prayer recounts the history and symbolism of prayer beads, teaches basic techniques for stringing beads and a host of other objects into prayer beads, and offers a variety of prayers and rituals to use those beads on a daily basis.

      • Daffodil Principle: When we multiply tiny pieces of time with small increments of daily effort, we too will find we can accomplish magnificent things. We can change the world.

      • Continuity Theory: Robert Atchley, author of a best-selling textbook in gerontology, is now retired and he reflects on the lifelong quest for wisdom in Continuity Theory: How Elders Find Wisdom In Spite of It All. Atchley is a member of the Sage-ing Guild Wisdom Circle.

      • Celebrate Aging Parents: Gail McConnon, who attended the June SG Conference is life coach who focuses on those in the second half of life.